The next chapter
is better together.
DateSteady is for people who know what matters. Members verify with a quick selfie check, compatibility is built on values, and you can hear their voice or see their face before you ever agree to meet.
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Real people, checked at multiple layers.
Three simple steps to a real conversation
Join free
Create your free profile and answer a few questions about your values and lifestyle. It takes minutes and shapes who you meet.
Verify you're real
Verify your email and phone, then add a live selfie to earn your verified badge and build your Trust Score. We check it is a live capture and match it against your own profile photo.
Discover and talk
Browse compatible people at your own pace, connect on what matters, and start the conversation right on DateSteady. No swiping, no number swapping.
Built for how you actually date
Most dating apps are built for endless browsing. DateSteady is built for real conversation with people who fit the life you have now, whether you're looking for love or good company.
Verified. Actually.
Verified users have matched a recent selfie to their profile photos. This confirms the photo on their profile is recent and consistent, it does not verify real-world identity or prevent all forms of misrepresentation.
Compatibility You Can See
A values and lifestyle questionnaire powers a clear compatibility breakdown, dimension by dimension. Discover people who fit your life, not just your type.
Trust You Can Measure
Verified profiles carry a public Trust Score from 0 to 100, built from signals like email, phone, and selfie verification. Know who's real before you say hello.
Voice & Video, Built In
Hear their voice and see their face before you ever meet. Voice greetings and video intros are free; in-app voice and video calls come with VIP. No number swapping, no app switching.
App That Knows When to Stop
Set a daily screen limit. We'll nudge you when you hit it. Because doom-scrolling profiles isn't actually dating.
First Message? Handled.
Openers sends a pre-written icebreaker the moment you connect. The awkward "what do I even say?", already done.
Ghosting? Not Here.
Our nudge system keeps conversations alive when things go quiet. Less fading into the void, more conversations worth having.
No Swiping, Ever
Our Glow Interaction System replaces the swipe. You see one profile at a time and choose with clear buttons: Pass, Like, or Flare. Flare is a limited, high-signal like that tells someone they truly stood out.
Filter by What Matters
Narrow your discovery with lifestyle and values filters, so the people you see line up with how you actually live. Focus on real compatibility, not just who is nearby.
Location-Verified Badge
Members can confirm they are near the city shown on their profile and earn an optional location-verified badge, so you have more confidence that someone is really where they say they are.
Meet in Real Life
Beyond the app, you can attend local DateSteady events and mixers and meet people face to face when you are ready. See what is coming up and reserve your spot.
Your Data. Not For Sale.
Encrypted messages, private by default. We do not sell your data to advertisers or data brokers. Invisible when you want to browse on your own terms. Your love life isn't an ad target.
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Safety isn't a feature.
It's the foundation.
These are safeguards, not guarantees. A verified badge confirms a photo is recent and consistent. It does not verify real-world identity or prevent all forms of misrepresentation, and we do not run criminal background checks.
Start free. Upgrade when ready.
One simple plan: full VIP access for $16.99 USD a month. Everything included, cancel anytime, no surprises.
Free
- Browse profiles
- Create your profile
- Compatibility questionnaire
- Limited daily likes
- See who likes you (blurred)
- Basic discovery
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Your VIP membership renews automatically every month, at the price that applies at the time, until you cancel. The price today is $16.99 USD a month. If we change the price, we will tell you in advance by email or a notice in your account, and you can cancel before the next renewal if you do not want to pay the new price. You can cancel any time in your account settings.
- Unlimited messaging
- See who liked you
- Private photos
- Voice notes
- Flare
- Invisible
- Read receipts control
Joining is free. A 30-day VIP trial may be available when you sign up. Keep VIP for $16.99 USD/month after, or stay on the free plan.
One plan, one price, everything unlocked. No hidden fees, no confusing tiers. Cancel anytime.
All plans keep your data private and secure. Cancel or downgrade at any time, no questions asked.
Your next chapter starts here
Real conversations with verified members, at a pace you set. Start free, see who's out there, and upgrade only if it feels right. Continue the Journey.
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